For years I believed that seeking to please people was kind and loving. I was shocked to find out that my efforts to do so often had a selfish motive.

Would you say that you are easy or difficult to care for?Here are three questions to help determine if you are making it difficult for others to care for you.

If I never took my car in for regular maintenance, I wouldn't say, "no one loves my car, why is it broken, uncared for and neglected?” But, sometimes our hearts suffer from a lack of maintenance because we don’t put them in places to be cared for by Father and His family. Here are 3 reasons we all need a B-Team for our hearts.

What are you fighting FOR? Anger and guilt trips from what we are against might temporarily motivate people, but only pursuing a worthwhile prize has the power to motivate long-term.

Overcoming Regret Pt. 2: We are all celebrating, making much of, something today? When I made much of what was missing, I couldn't see all the goodness around me. To overcome regret and disappointment we will need to learn to celebrate what "is" instead of "what's not".

We all fight alone sometimes. Why? Here are 3 reasons we choose to handle things on our own. . .

Where do we begin the process of overcoming regret? Good grief. Healthy grief allows us to clarify our values, hold on to what is good and move toward what is best.

Excellent piece by guest writer, Christina Lewis, sharing some wisdom with her younger self.

We like things done fast. Life is usually about processes of growth and change. These are a couple of my milestones of transformative moments.