For years I believed that seeking to please people was kind and loving. I was shocked to find out that my efforts to do so often had a selfish motive.

Fear leads us to try and control for self protection or connection but real love only exists when there is real freedom. We can have connection or control but we can’t have both.

Sometimes I ask, “why, God?” I don’t know if He has ever answered that prayer. Here’s a couple things to do and a better prayer to pray when asking, “why, God?”

A man took three years to build a circle of twelve stones that he set on fire and it changed the world.

Would you say that you are easy or difficult to care for?Here are three questions to help determine if you are making it difficult for others to care for you.

Would you defend your friend if they were being attacked and insulted? What if the one throwing the punches at us is our self?

The safeguard for being more "known" is being more known.

How we are feeling goes a long way to telling what we expect in the future.